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Contemporary views on “getting married” put a priority on money over love. A “proper” wedding must have as many red cars as possible, expensive dishes served, and fireworks. In addition, the groom must have a home ready for his bride to move into. A young friend of mine from the countryside has fallen in love but they may never marry because the girl’s parents require a new furnished condo before the couple says “I do.” (This condo pre-requisite is typical in the cities.) Vows and trusting God ‘to keep us together’ are rare. [Some of the pictures in this video were taken from our window, others on a nearby street.]
Well, I have seen many American weddings that indicate similar values; however, knowing what you tell about Chinese values on marriage I understand the loss runs deep in their country, the loss of trusting in God!
Awesome post, my dear. I’m glad love has kept us together, I love you!
Yes, I agree that American’s have same issues with putting on appearances… and my own experience in marriage is that keeping up appearances is disastrous, but trusting in God is keeping us together.