Americans have instant appeal in China, but it takes time to build meaningful relationships.   Last year we were standing in Tienanmen Square Beijing and in less than 10 minutes our cute 3 yr old Megan had attracted almost a hundred people [no exaggeration, we had to leave the Square as the crowd kept growing].   No relationships came out of all that exposure; even though we posed for many pictures.  But yesterday, over lunch at school, some Chinese staff told me three ways my family had touched their lives.  I was so surprised to hear it as I rarely have the opportunity to talk or eat with that particular group; obviously they are making quiet observations of our family.  This shows that people really do watch our actions over time.  I’m thinking: while it does take time to build trust and credibility, it’s worth the wait to have a positive impact in the lives of others.[P.S.  Two of these staff have asked to join the marriage study group!]